The Journey

.... Miri always rain recently. Heavy rains..  Thunderstorms.. Lightnings.. Wet.. Damp.. Bad vision.. Caused accidents.. Cause late to work.. Cause major traffic jams.. Super windy.. Cold.. Caught with cold and feverish afterwards.. I'm not keen to rain. I like it sometimes.. Depends.. I'm not sure.. I was paranoid with heavy rains.. I was caught in a very very very very bad bad traffic jammed, heavy rains like super super super heavy with thunderstorms and windy.. So many trees were broken, caused damaged and cause more traffic jammed. Caught into flood till my car almost broke down into that small "waves" of flood because big cars just ride along and didn't consider a small car like mine. It was terrified. I am still paranoid with such rainy weathers like that. It keep on flashing back into my mind. Everytime if its raining like that. No one was there. Only me, myself in the car, just want to go back home as fast as I could. ...

That one day event of your lifetime? It's yay or nay. Most people, I believe.. The process would be.. Go for engagement - legal government marriage - the wedding. I skipped the engagement part.  It took me almost 1 year approximately after I got married legally through the government with my husband. To Plan... Next? The church matrimony. Well,there was struggles, at first, of getting engage or to skip. We were thinking, if we are about to get engage, we need to spend a budget for the engagement. After my husband (boyfriend during that time) and I have a long discussion, we decided to get married straight away, legally. Skip the engagement. Budget constraint. No shame in saying that. True story. To those who want to go for the engagement process, of coz it is up to you. This blog is all about the process and plans from my husband and I; how we came out with our preparation, challenges, struggles, the ultimate stress until my husband got his grey hair so fast even if I...